The Romance of the Messenger of Allah with His Wife

KAUMMUSLIM.COM THE MESSENGER OF ALLAH Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam is a perfect person. On the battlefield he was a professional general who mastered fighting tactics & tactics. In the community, he is a friend, friend, teacher, & fun leader. In his residence, he is a housekeeper who can bring a sense of security, affection, and happiness.

The Prophet Sahallahu 'Alaihi Wassallam was crowned by Allah to be the suri tauladan.

لَقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ لِّمَن كَانَ يَرْجُو اللَّهَ وَالْيَوْمَ الْآخِرَ وَذَكَرَ اللَّهَ كَثِيراً

"Indeed, it has been found in (the) Messenger of Allah that is a good example for you (i.e.) for the one who hopes for (the mercy) of Allah & (the coming) of the doomsday and he poly calls Allah". (QS: Al Ahzab [33] : 21).

It is not a mistake if the whole life of the Messenger Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam becomes a good example for us. Including the affairs in the room though.

Among the romantic side of the Prophet Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam, he kissed his wife before going out for prayers. From 'Aisyah Radhiallaahu 'anha, "That the Prophet Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam kissed some of his wife and then went out to perform the prayers without ablution first." (HR Ahmad).

The Prophet Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam was a very gentle man. He expressed love for his wife simply & unpretentiously. He is a figure who is known to be very romantic.

For example, he used to call his wives, with tasteful calls & beautiful calls.

Siti 'Aisyah, called "Ya Humaira" (O pink).

Just imagine, which wife is not flattered when she is called her husband by this call? Whose ears don't want to hear greetings for example this?

But the aesthetic was created not because he was an expert in seducing, but because his heart was indeed clean, clear, beautiful and came out according to the bottom of his heart.

It is from the latif heart that comes out the terms, conduite, and latif attitude. It is from the beauty of the heart that all aesthetics are radiated based on every one he looked at and met.

Indeed, how wonderful the days of life were in the eyes of the Messenger of Allah. The romanticism of nir only applies to his wives, as well as children, even grandmothers & all other creatures of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala feel it.

The attitude of the Messenger of Allah is also shown when looking at nature & elements around. When he saw a flower that had begun to open its petals, his heart trembled, his heart rejoiced, & soon he came to her, kissed with his lips, and rubbed it with affection. Not to forget he said: "Aaamu khairin wa barakatin Insha Allah." (good and blessed year, God willing).

Likewise, when he found the crescent moon in the early days of the night of its appearance, he did not forget to welcome it using joy. Optimistically he spoke of her: "Hilaalu khairin wa baarakatin, God willing." (the beginning of a good and blessed month, God willing).

Divide the Messenger of Allah, our lord.

Although he became a leader who was super busy taking care of the ummah, but he did not forget to make love with his wives. He did not hesitate to take a bath and use his wife.

In a history, bathe along with Siti'Aisyah radhiyallahu anha in one bathroom with the same tub.

From 'Aisyah radhiallahu 'anha, he says, "I once bathed based on jinabat with the Messenger of Allah Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam using one place of water, our hands always took turns reaching into the water." (HR Mutafaqun 'alaih).

In the annals Ibn Hibban adds, "And our hands touched".

The Messenger of Allah taught us, bathing with wife is not a despicable thing.if this is considered despicable, surely he the Messenger of Allaah 'Alaihi wa Sallam will not do it.

The Prophet also deeply understood the feelings of his wives & knew how to please & give affection. The Prophet, not infrequently slept on the lap of Siti 'Aisyah, even though his wife was menstruating.

From Urwah he was once asked by people, "Can menstruating women serve me & can women approach me?"

Urwah revealed, "All may be to me, all may serve me, - without reproach. ' Aisyah has told me that she once combed the hair of the Messenger of Allah Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam while he was menstruating, even though at that time the Messenger of Allah Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam was i'tikaf in the mosque; he put his head close to him ('Aisyah) and he ('Aisyah) was in his room, and he combed her, even though he was menstruating."

Ummu Salamah said, "When I was with Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam sleeping on a rectangular black cloth (on one account: on the floor, I came to menstruate, and then I went out & took my menstrual clothes, and then he asked, 'Why are you? are you puerperal?' I replied, 'Yes.' He then called me, and then I slept with him on a low floor."

Ummu Salamah used to bathe with the Messenger of Allah Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallamdari from a vessel and he liked to kiss him, even though he was fasting.

The Messenger of Allah also taught us to treat our wives preferentially. It was shown when the Prophet when he did not hesitate to bathe based on the residue of his water.

From Ibn Abbas, "That Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam once bathed from the residual water of Maimunah." (HR Muslim).

The Prophet was also known to spoil women (his wives).

From Anas, he said: "Then we went to Medina (based on Khaibar). I saw the Prophet Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam providing a soft seat according to the cloth behind him for Shafiyyah. Then he sat down next to his camel straightening his knees and Shafiyyah put his feet on his knees so that he could ride the camel." (HR Bukhari)

A plate of twos, pranks and kisses

The Messenger of Allah made it a habit to kiss his wife when he was about to travel or just returned home.

From 'Aisyah radhiallahu anhu, that the Prophet SAW used to kiss his wife after ablution', then he prayed & nir repeat hiswudhu'." (HR 'Abdurrazaq)

The Prophet Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallam also liked to eat and drink both of them from the plates & glasses of his wives without feeling uncomfortable or disgusted.

From 'Aisyah RA, he said: "I used to eat his (homogeneous porridge) with the Prophet Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wassalam ." (HR. Bukhori on Adabul Mufrod)

From Aisyah Ra, he said: "I used to drink from the same glass during menstruation, then the Prophet Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wassalam reached into the glass and put his mouth in the place where I put my mouth, then he drank." (HR Abdurrozaq & Said bin Manshur, & another similar history based on Muslims.)

The Prophet Shalallahu 'alaihi wa sallampernah drank on the glass used by 'Aisyah. He had also eaten meat that had been bitten by 'Aisyah. (HR Muslim No. 300)

The Prophet used to lick 'Aisyah's nose when he was angry and he revealed, O 'Aisya, read the do'a: "O my Lord, Lord Muhammad, forgive my sins, eliminate the hardness of my heart, & protect myself based on misleading slander." (HR. Ibn Sunni)

The Messenger of Allah joked along with, when he was near using his wife.

In a history it is mentioned, 'Aisyah & Saudah once smeared each other's faces with food. Prophet SAW just laughed at the sight of them. (HR Nasa'i with isnad hasan)

Such was the Messenger of Allah. He was known to be gentle &affectionate in his wife. He also loved and privileged his wife when his wife was sick.

From 'Aisyah, he said, he (the Prophet) was the gentlest man and accompanied his wife a lot who was pitting or sick. (HR Bukhari No 4750, HR Muslim No 2770)

As a result, Islam teaches us a lot about tenderness and affectionate behavior in our partners. That is the attitude of romanticism that Islam teaches husbands towards wives. For the Apostle said, as good as husbands, are those who are able to be kind to their wives.

From Abu Hurairah, he said: The Messenger of Allah said: "The believer whose faith is the most perfect is the kindest of morals, & the kindest of you is the kindest of you to his wife." (HR. Tirmidzi, Ibn Hibban, hadith hasan shahih).*